EFT Couples Therapy-The Space Between-A Bottom-Up Approach

The space between. Why couples therapy Is not just about couples. Have you heard of EFT? Emotionally Focused Therapy has been around since the 80’s however the roots of it has been around for a lot longer.  Based on the work of John Bowlby and [...]

Sex in the News: Terry Crews-Dirty Little Secrets

I don’t know if Terry Crews is a narcissist. He’s not my patient. He did say however that he felt ‘entitled’ to sex with his wife. He said he felt entitled in general.  He said that he was more valuable than his wife because he [...]

I am my phone . . living in the digital age

Just short of three years ago I was walking with my son on South University in Ann Arbor when I asked him to pick out a lunch spot. As he always is on his phone, he immediately returned to his mobile device. I reacted. . [...]

Can Porn hurt a marriage?

Check out Marni's new post on about.com . . http://marriage.about.com/od/difficultissues/fl/Is-Pornography-Destroying-Your-Marriage.htm

When Couples Collide-More on Past lives

Have I known him before? Why is she so familiar? Why did things click the moment I met him? Diana told me that she felt like Evan’s spirit jumped out at her when she entered the club.  She had never met him but they had [...]

She can play that game too

Spring 2013 brought prom for my older son, then a HS Junior.  It was a pristine sunny day around the crowded waterfront backyard of the family that hosted the pre-prom pictures.  There must have been upwards of 60 kids there. As I walked though the [...]

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)

Have you heard of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy? Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, aka EFT, is an evidence based therapy, meaning simply that research has been done on the process/outcome. In fact, of all the couple therapy models available, EFT documents the most research and incidentally [...]

Couples Tip #1 – Don’t tell all!

For most of us it is easy to go through your day, start to finish, on autopilot.  There is alot to accomplish-between work, kids, parents, pets and household matters . . . it can be quite consuming. In the midst of things, staying connected to [...]

Male Erectile Dysfunction

Check out this article by Jaleh Weber, on Male Erectile Dysfunction.  She said that it received more hits than any of the others!  The article and tips can be found here:  http://voices.yahoo.com/male-erectile-disorder-interview-dr-barbara-6125616.html?cat=70 Jaleh is the author of Making Marriage a Success,  2011, available at Amazon.com. Also [...]